Does this sound like you?
If you’re like most of my students, you’re stuck in a loop. You experience the same problems over and over, year after year, always leading to the same result. You’ve also been distracted by a plethora of self-help, personal development, and mindset courses all promising that if you clear your baggage utopia is on the other side.
The self-help industry at large relies on selling you this fantasy, so that they can keep you in a never-ending cycle of buying books, attending seminars, and attempting to make their philosophies work for you. Very few personal development students understand this and even fewer manage to become people who don’t need fantasies.
You’re about to stop that cycle.
You need to understand why you don’t have what you say you want.
There are some hard truths and realities that you must accept if you want to grow into a person who no longer has the problems that you have.
The first is that you’re not entitled to have anything else.
The second is that not all your present problems can be blamed on your past or other people.
The third is that no matter what you try and do differently, you may have already agreed to end up exactly where you are right now. It’s time to start disagreeing.
To do this right, you must understand exactly who you are, what resources you have, and your own capacity for change. Only then can you achieve successful personal growth.
What we do differently to take you beyond personal development
Others
Force you to learn rigid systems of
Pseudoscience and ideology instead of tailoring the experience to your individual needs
Convince you that the reason
Your life isn’t producing the results you want is that you haven’t worked enough on your baggage
Advertise massive action, radical
Transformation, or quick fixes that are ultimately unsustainable and invite unintended consequences
Waste your time on
Fruitless attempts to govern and control your mind.
We
Analyze your behaviour
And needs to offer a personalized experience
Get results faster by restoring
Your self-worth and helping you become someone who can drop their baggage at will.
Install micro-actions
That you can practice sustainably to create lasting long-term change.
Understand that your mindset
Naturally heals and balances itself when you learn to appreciate your life.
Our philosophy is that to succeed in life, you must grow beyond your prey mindset. We get you there by teaching you to honour, acknowledge, and appreciate your accomplishments, so that you feel truly deserving of acting toward what you want and defending it once you have it.
Produce the results you’re looking for.
You want to:
Love and feel loved equally by the people you care about.
Be focused and feel certain that the decisions you’re making are the right ones.
Know that what you’re about to do matters and is going to make a positive difference in your life.
You also want to have a stable mindset and emotional power that can carry you through the darkest moments of your life and help you appreciate the greatest. To achieve this, you need a proven process that will completely reinvent your personal development experience and takes no more than five to fifteen minutes a day.
The story behind the process
I created Beyond Personal Development to support my clients in learning the tools and processes that make the difference between their success and failure in personal growth.
Before starting the company, I ran a coaching business using other teachers’ techniques to help people overcome traumatic experiences and act toward a fulfilling life. While I was able to build a loyal following, I kept running into problems that no matter what tool or technique I used, I couldn’t solve. Eventually, those same problems started to emerge in my own life. I started to question whether what I was learning and using as personal development methods were helping or hurting me in the long run.
I quit my business, and the personal development industry as a whole, in 2016. I took the time to reflect on what was common with my own problems, and the problems that my most troublesome clients had. I found that people who consistently lived in misery despite their privileges were missing two key traits: they lacked the strength to cope with confrontation, and they were unable to appreciate their accomplishments. When I discovered this, my spark for personal growth reignited.
I started calling old clients back that I felt I hadn’t completely served. I started accomplishing in 45 minutes what I had failed to do in ten years. I started to wonder if we could have just focused on these two traits the entire time.
Knowing what I know now, I believe that if people can adopt these two traits, they can accelerate their growth and move Beyond Personal Development once and for all.
That’s why this company exists: to help people get back to living their lives instead of perpetually searching for answers that are right in front of them.
How we do it
Behavior tracking
You’ll learn how to track and analyze your behaviour so that you can clearly understand who you are right now and why you keep doing the same things every day.
Integrated Appreciation Method
This is a process that restores your chemical capacity to feel good about your life by systematically reframing your interactions with other people. It relieves shame, grief, and guilt, helping you acknowledge and appreciate your own worth.
The Visionary Method
This method helps you discover the next identity that your life is calling you to adopt. You will learn to see the absolute pathway to what you are destined to be.
Creating Community
Join a supportive community of like-minded people who are dedicated to utilizing this work to transform their lives.
Are you willing to try?
What I’ve noticed in all the clients who have succeeded in leaving their anxieties behind and moving forward in their lives is that they were willing to die trying. If you’re reading this, you’re probably one of those people.
I get it. You’ve been around the block, you’re skeptical, and you may be thinking that this is just another trust fund baby life coach who hasn’t seen a day of adversity in his life, and who won’t lead you to a different result.
I want you to know that transformation is possible. I’ve been where you are, and I’ve fought tooth and nail to build a methodology that produces results. My goal is to help you burn your personal development library by working with what you have. Not more, not less. What you pay for is results, not textbooks.
Let’s make some kindling.